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Friday, September 21, 2012

Freedom For Birth Film Reflections

Last night I was one of the many birth-loving women in the world who attended a premier screening Freedom For Birth (FFB). This was a film about human rights and the law. The creators state on their website "Freedom for Birth" is more than just a film. It marks the beginning of a movement that will focus global attention on the violations of women's rights during childbirth all around the world." (Emphasis original). This is a movement long overdue.
 
This film was quite a departure from previous birth documentaries I've seen such as Business of Being Born (BOBB), Face of Birth (FOB) and Orgasmic Birth (OB). It lacked the wonderful homebirth footage found in these films and did not delve into the personal birth stories of different families. What FFB did have in spades were law savvy women discussing human rights abuses committed against women during childbirth and midwives all round the world. In particular the film focused on the plight of Hungarian midwife Agnes Gereb who was imprisoned for attending a homebirth which a baby died at (though it was clear the Hungarian authorities had been after her simply for being a homebirth midwife before this tragedy).

One of the women who birthed with Gereb, Anna Ternovsky went to court and challenged Hungary on the homebirth situation, arguing that her rights were not respected in Hungary where her midwife could be prosecuted for attending her at home. The case went to the European Court of Human Rights and the ever-ready-to-be-disappointed-birth-activist in me was stunned to learn that the ECHR ruled that it is a human right to choose where you birth, who attends you and how you give birth. There is now an official legal document in existence in patriarchy which clearly states that women have human rights in childbirth! 

Obviously the treatment of women during birth as a human rights issue is not new to those of us who have been battling against oppressive governments in the pocket of big business obstetrics, but to have this recognised by a court is a big deal. Unfortunately it means little in a practical sense in women's everyday lives presently, and even less if you're a woman without EU citizenship. But theoretically it could be appealed to, because I believe it would be a hard case for a government to make that women in Europe have human rights that women everywhere else in the world are not entitled to. 

Much of the FFB content was depressing. Tales of horrendous abuse, babies taken from mothers by the state before they were born, women forcibly cut open and babies removed from their bodies against their will, and midwives threatened and punished for providing gold standard maternity care. The picture painted was exactly as Ina May Gaskin summarised in the film: a system made dangerous by a combination of fear, greed and ignorance. The filmmakers attempted to counter the woe with Ternovsky's victory, but ultimately Gereb is still under arrest, Ternovsky should not have had to fight for women's human rights in birth in the first place, and even though she had a win and this could potentially mean a lot for women in the future, at present it is (as one of the lawyers stated) "theory...an abstraction". During the discussions after the screening I attended, those present pointed out that to challenge a government legally was a costly endeavour. When thousands of women in Australia want to homebirth but can't afford to hire an independent midwife, how are we to pay the legal fees to fight the state for respect of our human rights?

But, as the filmmakers state on their website, this is more than just a film, and the end of the film is just the beginning of the movement (or more aptly the continuation of a movement that many birth activists have been fighting for many decades now!). Following the screening a friend of mine started an action group for women to brainstorm ideas of where to take the movement next in Australia.

The highlight of the film for me was Sheila Kitzinger's concluding words, which were so uplifting that I will end with them too (though much is lost without her delightful British accent and grey haired bun): "birth is not something we suffer, it is something which we actively do and exult in."



Films' website
One World Birth website
Australian Freedom For Birth Action Australia

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Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Diva Cup review from the Facebook Page winner

A couple of months ago I had a Diva Cup giveaway on the Ilithyia Inspired facebook page. Entrants could win the cup on the condition that after using it for a few cycles they shared a review of it here. Here's what our Diva winner, Mel had to say about the cup:


First of all I must let you know that I have been diagnosed with vaginismus [from vaginismus.com: "Vaginismus is vaginal tightness causing discomfort, burning, pain, penetration problems, or complete inability to have intercourse. Vaginismus is a condition where there is involuntary tightness of the vagina during attempted intercourse."] so I was sure how I would go inserting the cup. It was difficult to insert so I used a little bit of lubricant which I wasn't sure if the cup could be used with but it didn't say I couldn't on the box. That helped a lot but I still found it challenging to rotate. After removing the cup for the first time I was surprised that with such a heavy flow I had no leaks.

I re-inserted and it took me a few goes to get it right. I'm guessing it will get easier the more times I do it. Plus I'm sure the vaginismus creates a bit of a problem. During my first night, I leaked. I had a feeling i didn't have it in right. I gave myself a break the next morning and tried again that evening. I had success again, no leaks and completely comfortable. I actually forgot that I had my period.

Now here is the best part...I had sex the day after my period had ended. For me, sex with vaginismus means only able to insert the penis to a certain point. For the first time in 18 months I was able to have pain-free sex with my husband's penis all the way in. I feel that the cup has helped stretch and relax the muscles inside my vagina.

I will definitely use the Diva Cup from now on, it feels great to know that what I am using is better for my body, more comfortable than pads and better for the environment.



I am thrilled for Mel, by the sounds of it a menstrual cup has changed her life, undoubtedly improved her sex life! Like Mel, I also find I can forget I'm menstruating when I use cups instead of pads or tampons. Before trying menstrual cups, I thought it would be messy, but I've found it to be just the opposite, most of the time menstruating feels blood free when I use cups. See my Diva Cup review here.


Diva Cup Online: Site | Facebook | Twitter
For your own Diva Cup refer to Diva's store finder and buy now pages. Or support a WAHM Aussie buisness and buy through Scarlet Eve.

***Neither myself or Mel received payment for this review**

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